I didn’t write anything myself about International Women’s Day. I was at a great event, took part in a very interesting panel discussion for Lanarkshire Councils around Technology businesses and didn’t really get a chance for reflection at the time.
Women are held back in terms of business success. We are time poor as we are more likely to have caring duties for children or elderly relatives. Also, we still have to close the gender gap and often we don’t have the same level of exposure to fund raising and to grant writing so access to finance to get any business up and running can be hard.
What got me thinking was I wonder how much we ourselves also hold back? Women are more deferential in nature, we are more apologetic and generally we are less confident than our male counterparts. We don’t like to parade our successes and our achievements and we often set the bar for celebration of “good enough” at the “perfection” level.
It occurred to me that the marketing concepts of TAM, SAM and SOM are very applicable here. Women often limit themselves to what they feel confident about – markets, knowledge, skills, network – the confidence barrier affects our performance on all those areas.
In general we are more skilled than we believe, or accept about ourselves. Our SAM is actually much wider. We often forget about our project management skills from running a household or our negotiations and diplomatic skills gained from persuading toddlers to do what you need them to do. All those transferrable skills make for really good business women.
And then there is what we could be capable of. The TAM. We tend to forget about the opportunities of upskilling, the experience we get from overcoming each and every challenge that comes our way.
As long as you are working on a business concept that you are passionate about, that means as much as family to you, then you WILL find a way to make it happen. We should focus more on the TAM and believe in the possibility that each and every one of us as business women, leaders or team worker has to offer.